So I'm trying to conceive at 34 year's old, my first child.... But I'm lesbian hence why it's my first, i am single but know i can and will be a great mother to my child, the only issue is i don't want to do artificial insemination <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> through s doctor again because it's wasting my money I've been using <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> through a doctor for the past 3 year's , i found a close friend who's willing to cream in a cup for me , the thing is how can i insert it in myself ? I'm also a virgin at 34, yes i know it'll hurt worse but every pound of pain is worth it. Also he doesn't want me to insert it at his house he asked me to bring it home and do it.. i was going to ask the guy down stairs to do it since he lives right there and he said he would before but im not sure if the sperm would be ok for 5-20 mins in a cup :( well heading home ! Please advice anyone .