I haven't told my husband directly, but have hinted to him that this will be my last pregnancy.  He always wanted 5, and I got him down to 4, but this will only be our second. With the way our finances are (me staying at home), and the expensive lifestyle that we have I just don't want to change our lifestyle to have more kids. I love the life we have now and I don't think that it would be fair to have more kids and make it financially difficult for us. One of the reasons he fell in love with me was because I also wanted a big family...let's hope he can be okay with this.