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So is it unreasonable for me to be a little upset about My husband getting me flowers for Valentine's Day when he said we didn't have the money to do anything for Valentine's Day and we wouldn't get anything for each other? 
I thought that was kinda not cool. I mean I love the man for wanting to get me something because he loves me, but he stole that from me, that being able to get him something to show him I appreciate him and all he does for me and our little's? I wasn't going to spend much, just SOMETHING little, but didn't because we BOTH agreed not to. I am not mad, just disappointed and sad

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Lol 😆 I'm sorry yes you're being unreasonable. It's ok though! If you feel that way get him something and give it to him tomorrow. Or you can go big for Steak and BJ day (it's exactly what it sounds like.

Last Christmasy his and I decided not to get anything for each other. But I just couldn't not get him anything because he was gone for work and I missed him and wanted him to enjoy himself some while he was gone. I bought him a game. He was shocked! The next day he went out and got me something no matter how much I told him not to. Honestly, it felt the same as if he didn't get it just because I couldn't resist. I felt special and loved and was very touched.

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My husband did the same thing! But the more you think about, it was really sweet. Try not to overthink it, we do that sometimes while pregnant

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Mine did the same thing! I was a little butthurt but it was super sweet of him to go out of his way to do that

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Yeah, relax. If you want to do something special for your hub, you don't need a made up holiday. Just do it.

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Yes you are wrong for that . Men will do anything to please us even if it is flowers . Give him a nice message or something and calm down he was trying to do something nice and spontaneous for his lady

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Aww. I got my husband a card and a king sized bag of m&ms and left them on the trunk of his car. About an hour later I got a fraud alert from Capital One that our card had been charged by a florist 😳🤔😘

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Aw! We really don't have any extra money right now so I got absolutely nothing, not even a card. I didn't think it would bother me as much as it did but I ended up crying for most of yesterday evening 😂 pregnancy hormones

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I would say, a tiny bit unreasonable, sorry! He just couldn't resist and wanted to spoil you! Go big for him back, make him a special dinner or give him a back rub or wear something sexy for him! I feel unreasonably sad about wierd shit too sometimes, it's OK and your feelings are valid just know that to me, an outsider, he did nothing wrong. ❤

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