Asshole husband

I always go all out for my husband for everything. I got him really nice gifts for Christmas and he got me nothing until the day before he went and got a necklace at the grocery store. We share a joint bank account so money isn't the issue. For Valentine's I gave him some of his early( 2 video games) and I did petals leading to our bed with candles and some new lingerie with a nice home cooked meal. He came home had sex with me and I started to cry and tell him that I feel like i dont matter to him since he doesn't do anything to show me he cares anymore. He got mad at me and said well i work so you have a place to live. I'm a sahm and appreciate him working hard. So he then decided he wasn't going to eat dinner with me and he was going to go straight to bed. I ended up having my dinner alone and cleaned it up. Also my birthday is in 5 days and he hasn't even mentioned doing anything for it but he talks nonstop about his. Which is a couple weeks after mine. I'm just really tired of feeling like I don't matter ....

Update: there's some women saying that I might be overreacting because of the idea of a holiday and i totally see where this could be seen that way. My husband also has been choosing to go out to the bar and parties with the guys at his work over spending anytime with me. I spent new years alone while he went to a house party. He has never asked if I wanted to go with. So I was hoping a holiday might give him a reason to do something to show he cares about me. So I was really hurt. But thank you all for your responses