need opinions

So I was in this relationship I was so happy and in love with him or so I thought. But then he was starting to tell me that I couldn't wear make up because it made him break out, he told me what purse to use and what clothes to wear, he told me that I couldn't be friends with certain people, would blow up my phone while I was at work, always made me pay for things, and he always wanted sex everytime we'd hang out... Would you consider that I was in a abusive relationship?