People making rude comments?

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I'm 27 weeks 4 days and have mixed comments said to me at work. Some people say my belly isn't that big or not big enough for how far I am. That makes me worried that my baby will be small! Then another girl at work makes comments about how I'm getting so huge and bigger each day! Every time I walk into the break room she always yells oh my your belly is even bigger than yesterday! I don't know how to feel about either comment they both kind of bother me. Anyone else get these comments?

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Try not to get bothered about the comments like that. I am always getting the "omg you're so small for 6 months" comments I just brush it off. What matters is what your doctors tell you. And if they had no concerns then don't let it get to you. Also your tummy can be super tiny and you can still have a normal 7 pound or so baby so don't let that worry you. I've seen a lot of moms on here even posting pics in their third trimester with only a few weeks left and their tummys are just as small as mine is at 26 weeks some even smaller. That doesn't always determine the size of the baby.

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Why bother?! As long as your baby is healthy then just let them say what they want. U can't control their mouth and mind. Be happy~

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Don't let it get to you,  women are always going to be judgmental and make comments about pregnant women. As long as you know your baby is healthy and you're happy, I would say ignore them 😊

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As long as you feel good and have no reason to worry about your baby; I'd say let the dumb people talk. Stress isn't good for you, try to relax and ignore the useless comments.

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I got "when your wear your jacket at work  you look like a hefty girl, not pregnant".

I think she meant it as a compliment but totally was like "thanks not only do I feel fat, now I don't look pregnant, I just look fat"

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I posted something similar last week.. how awful is it that so many of us are dealing with the same ridiculousness!! Just ignore them. I've realized people are just pushing their insecurities off on me.

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I had one girl tell me the other day that "you get what you get"  then told me her baby has down syndrom... I have already been worried the whole pregnancy because of miscarriages and all the new things since the last time I had a baby (2005).  It irritated me and has me paranoid again, i just got over some fears since being able to see and details of the anatomy scan and blood work... ugh.  Dont get me wrong I would love her regardless, but damn, i think we all know what may or may not happen...

People making rude comments?

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