I went to a labor and delivery class. The nurse asked every girl in the room how they imagine their labor and delivery. They were all saying "under water, in my house, with music and candles, etc". Then she asked me I said "with the epidural". Everybody in the room gave me a dirty look. The nurse pointed me out the entire session.

I don't understand. Having a natural birth with or without pain medication, or having a c section. Is a personal choice. Many women like to judge other bc of that. Like you are less mom for not "suffering enough".