fighting with husband

Hi ladies I need to vent.. and even some advice...
are anyone else's husband driving them crazy?!
Since we've brought the baby home my husband has been obsessive over the feeding. Even when we were in the hospital and I was giving the baby colostrum my husband insisted that we give the baby formula so the baby "grow big and strong" because he thought that i wasn't gonna have milk and even though I absolutely refused giving the baby formula ... when I slept at night he shoved formula down the baby's throat to the point where he would vomit... when my milk came in my husband was "proud" of me ... but still insisted I exclusively pump and feed the baby from a bottle because he wanted to see how much the baby was eating. Fast forward to now where the baby is 7 weeks old .. and my husband is still fighting with me over the fact that I still want to breastfeed ... he wants us to only give the bottle but I enjoy breastfeeding and the connection I have with my baby. 
I have severe anxiety over feeding this baby and we are constantly fighting which is not healthy for our marriage or for the baby. 
I don't know how much more of this I can take and was wondering if anyone's else's husbands or significant others do this...