So I'm in a fairly new relationship, and my boyfriend just so happens to be a musician and we had plans for tonight and he texted me and said "hey I have a show tonight so we can't hangout sorry this is important for me" and I completely understand that it's important and I do support him, more than anything and I'm happy and proud of him but my feelings are hurt pretty bad because I feel like I've been put on the back burner... because we did have plans, then something better and more interesting came along for him and he ditched without thinking twice about it.