valentines gift gone array

My husband and I are in our first year of marriage and he is a chef but recently got fired.  So although he is not romantic in any way I thought he might do something thoughtful.  He gave me a ring that he had lying around from a relationship from the past.  Am I the only one who feels that this sucks?  He didn't go out of his way at all. We have been together for seven years and I just wish that our first married valentines was special.  I feel sad and unspecial.