Fast forward to now, and we're both in college (yay gi bill) and we have a beautiful son. I feel as though I've lost the "spark" between us, but the unconditional love is there. I wear the pants in the relationship and focus far more on school than my husband does. And to make it worse, I am the first serious relationship my husband has ever been in. Although, he'll help with errands and loves our son to death, he doesn't work and is always playing video games as I'm (now) actively looking for work on top of clinical (med) school. I'm too exhausted to continuously remind him of his "fatherly" roles because he's grown.

Any advice? :(