I never had a healthy relationship with the father of my child. He was emotionally abusive towards me and I don't feel comfortable with him being in the delivery room. We are no longer together and have been split up for about 7 months now. I don't trust him to do what he needs to do when this kid gets here. He doesn't have a job and he isn't looking to get one either. He wanted to work on a relationship with me but never made it clear what we were so I started to see other people. He got upset with me and started acting emotionally abusive towards me again. I told him I don't trust him co parent because how he treats me is a reflection of how he's going to act towards our child. But he also swears up and down he wouldn't treat our child that way. He's always making the situation seem like he's a victim and doesn't follow through with much of anything. He swears up and down he wouldn't treat our child they way he treats me, but continues to disrespect me and talk to me any kind of way. He tells me hell try to come to my appointments but doesn't really show up. He only came to one appointment and stayed in the waiting room and didn't even come to the ultrasound room. (The doctor had to make him come see me) So is it wrong that I don't want him around our child if he's emotionally abusive and manipulative? He subconscious abuses me and I'm worried hell do the same to our child. Am I wrong for not wanting him there? Am I wrong for worrying about this?