Different sex drives?

Question

Have any of you been with someone who had a lower sex drive than you? My husband and I used to have about equal sex drives, but now I'm wanting it way more often than him. Everyone has told me its because he's in his mid 20s so it is starting to slow down. I'm several years younger so I still have a very high sex drive. What is the best way for us to handle this?

Answer

Prayer for one. And communication. Pay attention to what he reacts to. Then when you're in that mood, put on whatever lingerie or bra and pantie set he reacts to. And entise him to bed. It may not work every time but the goal is to not stress him or pressure him about it. Its to make it pleasurable for you both. And always pray for insight in every matter of your marriage.

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Compromising and lots of masturbating. You don't ever want to guilt or force him into sex, thats sexual assault. You have to be open to communicating with each other and understanding that when he says no that you have to respect that but if you say "Hey I want to have sex, if you dont want to are you willing to help me get off another way?" He will probably be wiling to help you out! Just communicate,compromise and masturbate when you can LOL good luck girl!

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I had a higher sex drive than my ex and it was just a lot of compromising. Sometimes he would try to get into the mood for me, but a lot of the time I would have to just get over it to be honest. Only advice I can think of is it was easier to handle when we were out doing something or eating than when just laying around and watching a movie etc, so when you feel like you really need sex try to avoid those situations lmao

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