I can have orgasims from self pleasure but I haven't yet had one during intercourse. I'm 24 and nervous I'm never going to have one. Believe me I heard it all: Give it time, It's not the right guy, you might later in life, it might be a certain position, and again you have had the right guy. I've tried many positions to see with my SO. He is big enough and really good at sex. I don't think that's as "it's not the right guy is too true". Are they very noticeable or are their certain signs to know when your having one. Just want to know if I'm the only one???