TMI Sexy Time

Okay so background info.
I'm a submissive 100%. I love BDSM and roughness and it's the only thing that seems to get me off. And I've never EVER been dominant before. The most dominant I get is when I'm ontop, but I want to be choked if I'm ontop.
My sexual partner is 100% vanilla. He's terrified of even having me pinned down with his hands, and looked at me crazy when he saw my ball gag, and made me explain why I liked pain when he saw my flogger (his face was priceless though).
Today he let me tie him up, blind fold him, and have my way with him. I have him a safe word (congress - cause congress fucks everyone) and I got to tease, and bite him and hear him moan for twenty minutes before I finally started giving him head.
He actually came in under 2 minutes and was saying it was the most erotic thing he had ever done in his life. 10/10 would do again