So my mother and mother in law got into it about who gets to do what for my baby shower- to the point it got physical ( like who doesn't love the battle of the mothers right?) anyways it became so stressful to the point I said forget it I will just plan my own shower . Should I do my own or just not have one ? This is my first baby and I was sooo excited for a baby shower but now with all this drama and them being divided it's like I don't even want to have one anymore ! Anyone doing theirs? It's hard to really plan when you don't have the budget for it but how are you ladies doing yours ?