Marriage Advice

My husband and I are going through a very difficult time right now. We're going to try counseling as our last option, but I don't personally believe in divorce! I'm so heart broken and feel very lost and unworthy. I know it's not easy to look at the positives when you're in a situation like this, but all I can think of is "Who is ever going to love me again?" "How am I going to start over?" I was married at 19 and we've been together for 6 years now. I'm 24 and he is 30. Any words of advice? Please nothing negative...I'm already at my low! I'm just feeling very lost and confused and need some girls to help me pull out of this. 
**The reason this is happening is because he said for the last year I controlled every aspect of his life (I agree 100%) and that I emasculated him. He said he hated himself everyday. Now he is very resentful towards me and doesn't know if he can look past that or ever "be in love with me" like he was because of all the hurt I caused.