My mom and dad live around 4 hours away. They have been talking about moving close to me and now that we're expecting they are more serious about it. However they haven't made much progress on getting their house together to sell or look at houses here. They spent six days at my house for Christmas and it was very difficult. They take up a lot of space and my mom is super needy. We only have a two bedroom ranch so when the baby comes it's not a good situation. My dad says today that we'll maybe in the beginning they can just stay here and I basically had to say I don't want that   I can't have a newborn and parents to take care of in my own house when I just want to relax with my baby. Not sure how to make it more clear to them that staying at my house is not an option!