I'm 11 days past ovulation and having an <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> done... AF should be here Wednesday and I've been doing good at not wanting to take a test, until tonight. So I gave in and took one... I don't normally cry or get depressed when there negative but this time I just couldn't help it. I always get disappointed but never like this. I keep telling myself that I shouldn't of tested tonight that I should of waited til morning and that's why its negative or I just tested to early and should of waited a few more days and that could be why it's negative. I guess I just expected the <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> to work. I've tried to prepare myself for it not to have worked but I guess deep down I expected it to. We've been trying for 13 years with help from a fertility specialist over the last year. I'm almost 36 and everyone I know has kids except for us. How do I tell my husband it didn't work? Ever since the <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a>  he's been telling people about it, he even told our 6 month old nephew that he's gonna be a big cousin. When he leaves for work he kisses me and says "take care of my baby". I've been so resistant to him telling people about the <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> because everyone just assumes that it will work the first time, no matter how many times you explain the odds to them. I didn't want to tell anyone, so if it didn't work I wouldn't have to tell all those people it didn't work. I've had this conversation over and over with my husband about the chances of it not working the first time but it's like it just went in one ear and right out the other... I don't want to disappoint him, yet again... All I can do now is pray that I just tested to early...