I am 32, my fiance is 41. We never really discuss the age gap because we pretty much have the same views on most things. It rarely comes up.

Some guys my age were cracking jokes like " you like those old white men". I look younger than I am , which I am told a lot so the gap can seem more than 9 years...but mentally we are on the same page.

Some days I want to go off on them and tell them about themselves. My "old man" is in better shape fitter than all this guys put together. He has a good career, treats me with respect, and knows how to be a man. These fools still in the strip club, trying to get out of paying child support. Chasing skirts. They are still playing mind games. I don't have to deal with that BS with my man.

They wouldn't know what being a man was if it hit them in the face. How do I respond to comments like this without hurting someone's feelings???