MIL 😩

Hi ladies! So me and the MIL are very different in many ways. Had my little girl in December and I'm starting to get annoyed at how she seems to want to dress her all the time. Don't get me wrong I am very grateful for the things she buys my daughter, but get upset by the words that come with them e.g. I brought her this dress for xmas day, this one is for New Year's Day, this dress for her first wedding she will attend. Maybe I'm being selfish but I feel like that's something I want to do and choose how I dress my daughter for the special occasions and photo moments 😩 now I will sound catty but the outfits she buys are so over priced and very dated im really not into them at all 😕 any advice?