feeling like hubby doesn't care as much

I recently returned to work and of course my baby is having a hard time adjusting because he's breastfed and doesn't take a bottle. I've tried every bottle under the son and he just will not take it. During the day he gets solids and oatmeal cereal to hold him over until I get home. My husband is watching him right now and I just feel like he's not getting treated the greatest. My husband just doesn't know how to take care of him. He doesn't offer a pacifier, or do any of those things. He just lets him cry. And it really upsets me. I came home today and told my husband he needs to step up his game. I don't wanna be rude but the baby needs to eat more often and needs a lot of attention.... ugh it's like I shouldn't even have to explain myself.. do any other moms feel this way?? I seriously thought he was gonna be a good dad, but he seems so careless when it comes to our son. He's never even read him a book or any of that kinda stuff 😰😰