I'd like brutal honesty because were so divided and it's driving me mad. We have two healthy kids, one of each gender. I have rare antibodies (antiK) which if you research are the worst of them. It's the same idea as RH antibodies, except we have no shot and not much we can do about it. Anyway we keep going back and forth between more kids (one more) because we're so young. I feel like we're not done. But at the same time it can be very risky for baby. Should I count my blessings and stop? I don't want these antibodies deciding how many kids I can have and with proper monitoring I feel like it should be ok but there's no guarantee. There's no guarantee with any pregnancy. I feel like we can't come to a decision on this and we keep going back and forth. Is it selfish to try again? If you were me what would you do?