Marriage

Lauren
So my guy and I have been together for almost 5 years now. I know without a shadow of a doubt that he is the love of my life. We talk about getting married off and on but for some reason he hasn't taken the plunge. We talked about it last night and he says he doesnt feel it? He says logically he wants to but emotionally he doesn't know what he feels. So basically I'm very confused. What could he mean by that? We live together, share finances, etc. so why not get married? He did agree that we are both working toward that same goal but I don't know, I just love him and don't want to lose him. I would also like to add that his parents had a toxic marriage