what would you do if your man recorded you and you didn't know?

So early in my relationship my man didn't like that my ex-husband and I somewhat got along so he started trying to control how I dealt with my ex and in regards to our child! I felt controlled so I'd wait till my man was at work to communicate with my ex! Well one day all of the sudden my boyfriend freaked out and packed up and left me! Turned out he put a recorder in my house and heard me talking to my ex on the phone of which was nothing inappropriate however I did chit chat with him! My boyfriend and I ended getting back together! So just recently he recorded me again talking to my mom! I was venting about things going on in our relationship! So he confronted me and thinks it's perfectly healthy to record me if he feels something isn't right! How would you feel about this sort of situation?