husband problems...

LONG story short, my husband and I have been married for three years.. right after the wedding I wanted to start trying. He wanted to wait.. he kept listening to his mother about "enjoying time together before kids"
I get that, but my husband is a complete homebody, and he doesn't like to travel. So we didn't go/do anything exciting, I begged him to do a cruise, but he never wanted to. So now he on board about getting pregnant.. and we've been trying for close to a year now.. and I'll admit it, I feel like I'm late in the game.. I'm in my late 20's. and I have some resentment towards him. It seems like he always has the final say in anything we do. And I've been throwing that in his face, especially about having kids. When he met him, I told him how strongly I want children and he agreed with starting after the wedding..and after the wedding he kept putting it off. Can someone shed some light on this? Has it happened to you? How did you solve it? Please no negative comments!