I need to get some different perspectives on our current situation.  I am due April 12 and my husbandand I (currently in FL) are moving to NY in the middle of June.  My parents are coming to visit us/the baby the week after my due date because my mother is a teacher and that is when her break is.  They are only going to stay for two days.  My husband's parents could not come until the end of May.  They also would be coming for much longer and would want to stay in our house.  Since we are moving literally 3 weeks after they could visit, my husband asked them to wait to see the baby for when we moved home.  May is going to be crazy for us with a newborn, packing, and selling a house. His parents are quite mad about us asking for them to wait 3 more weeks.  Was it wrong to ask them?  What would you have done?