What do y'all consider acceptable expression of anger?

Question

I'm trying to draw boundaries and stand up for myself. Sometimes I don't know where the line should be drawn. My man has NEVER lost his temper like he did tonight. I'm feeling shaken up and unsure how to move forward. Where do you draw the line in yourself and/or your relationship when it comes to expressing anger?

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We rarely raise our voices at eachother. We have actually started a new thing where we try not to yell at all. So if he is upstairs and I am downstairs he will come down if he needs to ask me something instead of yelling for me. I think it helps to calm the environment. He would never put his hands on me or get in my face. That is partly that he is not that kind of person and he knows that I have been in an abusive relationship in the past.

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Absoluteltu no hands on me. No throwing or hitting things. No yelling at me. My husband has never done any of those things

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No screaming, yelling, hitting (putting hands on eachother). Talk like adults. You listen to him without saying a word and he listens to u without saying a word then compromise. Communication is the key. If it goes one ear and out the other the argument can get messy. Both apologize if it's necessary then move on.

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I think expressing anger is healthy. We all get angry. But for my man to lay his hands on me, degrade me, or say hurtful things im insecure about, i would say that is talking it to far. My man has gotten angry at me, but he has never ever said anything horrible to me. He just ignores me until he cools off and then explains what made him upset.

What do y'all consider acceptable expression of anger?

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