Virginity Loss: how do I tell my mom?

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My mom is a very Christian lady and I am very close to her. I feel comfortable telling her anything except I don't know how to tell her I have lost my virginity... How do I ease her into it? From your own experience how did your parents react?

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Like I said just tell her straight up. I'm 16 and I told my mom and we are closer now and she trust me. It's better to hear it from you then somebody else. So just tell her it hard but it will feel good once all that weight is lifted off your shoulders.

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you could casually being up birth control and see her reaction to that and go from there.  as if you are *considering* taking your relationship to the next stage. BUT it's not her business really.

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You may decide you don't want to tell her? I understand you're close but sex is a very intimate thing that you don't have to share if you don't want to.

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Just tell her what happened. Mine cried when she found out and I still remember to this day .. I was 14 and I'm now 21. You will feel better when you tell her

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First of all- how old are you . If you are grown then you tell her when you decide . It's your business.  But- if you are a teenager you should let her know so you can get BC nd see your doctor to make sure you will be free if STDs and other complications . Sex isn't a game just b/c you use a condon.

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Just tell her straight up.. Because at least you are being honest with her.

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I waited until I was 20 and the best way is to make a doctor appt to let mom know u are responsible and to ensure that u will be making love again... So to show respect and responsibility.

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agree, it's a pretty sensitive issue even if she's your mom. have you ever told her about anything like this before? how'd she react?

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It doesn't matter how old she is, I personally wouldn't tell my mom until she's seen and approves and knows Ive been with the person long enough

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My mom found out because I was dumb enough to keep a diary in high school. She was so furious that she drove to school and confronted the guy, and to him to never talk to me again. She also made me quit the after school activity we were both in so I could avoid contact with him. It was bad... It took years for our relationship to get back to not wanting to kill each other every day... I say don't tell her unless she asks.

Virginity Loss: how do I tell my mom?

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