C section

I am due on march 9th but they are doing my c section on march 3rd and. Im kinda scared i have alot of things racing. In on mind i been trying to talk to my boyfriend about our birth plan and i can't get him to talk to me about it .. Keeps saying he is stressed. I like to have a plan. And not just to in with nothing on hand because we also have a 2 year old .. When i was pregnant with her i was able to talk to him and get a plan put together.. How or what do i say to get him to open up .. His sister is also pregnant and he has showed her more att. In her pregnancy then he has showed me this whole 8 months he says because her boyfriend broke up with her because he felt. They need to work on them self before they try to raise a baby on lies.that she needs support.. But what about me an his child i feel lonely i can't even get him to help me clear out our house but helped clear hers out .. What should i do or say ... Ima bout to have a break down n go crazy