Okay so i got out of a very serious relationship about a month and a half ago. He was my first everything. I never thought we would separate but he has very bad anxiety (on meds) and couldn't handle our relationship on top of everything going on in his life, and I'm not gonna lie he has a ton to deal with and I wish he would've let me help him with it. But, since we broke up I have been seeing this new guy. We've gone on probably 10 dates maybe more and we talk 24/7. I told him starting out that I didn't want anything g serious to happen too fast.  But he hasn't made it official with me yet and it's like I just keep waiting. It's been a month and I'm ready to make it real. If he's not my "boyfriend" what can I tell people that he is when they ask?