Anyways, he was in a very serious car accident. He's in critical condition and things not look good at all. I want to go see him and just be there for him in any way possible. My only concern is that I know his girlfriend will be there and I really don't want to overstep. From what I know about her she's very nice, but I know for a fact that I slept with her boyfriend (even though they were broke up at the time) really upset her. She doesn't mind that I'm friends with him, but I know she doesn't want anything to do with me. I'm worried I'd overstep by going to the hospital. I don't want to make this situation any worse for her than it already is. She is his girlfriend and I'm an ex  so in my opinion she gets to be the one that's more affected by this whole situation and I feel I should do what I can to make it easier for her. But I really want to see him. Any advice would be really appreciated! And if you read to the end thank you- I know this was really long! Thank you