Weight gain during pregnancies

Hi ladies!

For those that have had more than one baby, what was the weight gain like for your pregnancies?  Was the gain in subsequent pregnancies similar to your first? Or did you gain more/less?

I gained around 40 pounds with our little girl, and still have around 23 left to pre-pregnancy weight. We want to start ttc within a year, and I have been putting so much pressure on myself to lose the weight -not just because of future ttc, but for overall health and to feel good about myself again. 

I know everyone and every pregnancy is different, I'm just curious to hear others' experiences.  Thanks!