Okay. Sorry in advance for the long post. I really need some advice and no judging please! I'm 16 almost 17. He's 17. We've been together a year and 9 months. He is my best friend, we laugh together, have been totally loyal, still love each other, are mostly honest (because his taste in jewelry sucks so I pretend to like it cause I love him). He's aways there for me. Until recently... I lost my virginity to him the day before valentines. He lied to his grandparents and said he was going to robotics, and I sent him an uber to my house. We didn't tell anyone, and the next day my mom let us go on a date. We lied and snuck back to his house instead of going to the movie we said we would. His house was empty and the deed was done again. That was a tuesday. The next monday, his mom found a condom wrapper and he spilled. I'm grounded from him and my mom is so dissapointed in me. I feel so horrible that I broke her trust in that way, and for almost a week she couldn't look me in the face. I'm no longer welcome on his house or around his family. (His family is like my 2nd family). I am not allowed to talk to him or see him outside school. He graduates in 4 months and is joining the air force. I want to go to college. If we're already going to be long distance, and can't see each other or talk to each other now, should I just break it off? Is there a point in us trying to keep being boyfriend/girlfriend if both our families, (some of my friends), and basically our life plans are against it? My mom threatened to press charges for statutory rape if she finds out we stayed together after he turns 18. That would ruin him. So he knows we're not having sex again, at least till I'm 18. But by then he'd already be away. We've talked about it, and he says he doesn't know. We both still love each other, but don't know if this is a sign it's time to break up?
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