Married girls: need your advice 💍

Paula
Hi ladies, so I need to know what are you thoughts about being married and what made you take that important decision (why did you married your husband). I'm in a +2 years relationship and although I love him and he is a good man, there's something I just don't see clear in him. He is extra jelous and possessive some times , and also kind of selfish in certain situations. He wants to marry me (he told me but he hasn't ask yet) and I'm kind of confused , I don't know if he is the man of my life , I love him but he has some things I feel will make our marriage fail..so,  What do you saw in your husband that made you take the decision? Thank you for your advices beautifuls ♥️ love , P.