should I go to the ER? cramping a lot

Destynee • PCOS • 2 natural born • pregnant with our letrozole baby🤍
So my husband and I had a huge argument Friday and I was extremely stressed and ended up having a panic attack. Ever since then I have been spotting (brown and pink) and I've been cramping a lot more than I normally do and it's sort of painful. Nothing I absolutely can't handle but I feel it a lot more than I did before and it's just always there and constant. I am 8 weeks 1 day. Also a side note I've been having pain in my ribs on the right side every once in a while and it's almost like a shock. But should I go to the ER? My OB literally can not move me up they are kind of jerks anyway unless they have already seen you so I'm not going to argue with them. I just don't know what to do and it's stressing me more than I should be. I just want to some peace of mind💔