My SO recently lost his job. Before he lost his job he would spend his whole pay check in one day. We are living with my parents currently, due to personal reasons. I go to school and work with my grandfather to make us a little extra cash. It's only $140 a month for helping him but it goes along way. I started putting half of the money my grandfather would give me at the end of every month away with out my SO knowing about two months ago otherwise he would spend it on weed, and takeout. Well I didn't hear him coming back into the bed room just now well I was tucking alittle more away and he caught me. He freaked out. I'm doing this for a good reason and i tried explaining that to him but he doesn't seem to care, he's just continued to freak out and now he is refusing to talk to me. Whatever though he will thank me for doing this when we need it.