Update to "I doubt he'll change"

 I posted something here earlier about my bf being controlling and how he said he was going to change and so on. I broke up with him tonight and the way I saw his reactions the more firm I was on my decision. I know he is hurt and so am I. But he kept punching the wheel to his car hard af like 3 times, he told me "as soon as I get home I'm throwing away all of our stuff" then he would apologize and ask me why and cry. I was sad too but I just couldn't anymore. Got home and he unfollowed me and defriendsd me on all social media. It hasn't even been 2 hours. But I guess people cope with things differently. I'm hurt and it's not easy but Ik i wouldn't have been happy if I stayed