FTM BUMP/BLOAT

I realize a lot of women like to bring women down, like a woman can be 12 weeks and start to see a bump and here comes the green eyed monster and says "that's not a baby bump, it's a bloat" like damn , why so mean. But with that being said, I think I'm one of those paranoid FTMs who'll be like 26 weeks pregnant and be like "Babe do I look pregnant yet?"😂. A lot of women here bring people down so much, I'll be out my first trimester next week and anytime I so much start to even look like I'm getting a bump I'm like "ehh, let me take the thought out my head"