What is your view on your significant other watching porn?

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My ex husband started out with porn. Then on to dating websites, fake names, talking to any woman that would send him pictures, to full on asking me for an open relationship and pointing to women asking if he could fuck them. Left him. There will be absolutely no porn in my relationship or there won't be a relationship.

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Thankfully we both feel the same way, surprisingly he's the one who opened the conversation about it. Masturbation, we don't care. What you do with your body in your alone time is your business. Porn, however, we both feel is for when you're single. When you are in a committed relationship, that stops. Sex scenes/nudity in shows and movies are fine. We don't actively seek those out for outside sexual stimulus. It when you're actively seeking outside sexual stimulus that it's an issue. That's just how we feel though. There are a variety of different opinions. In the end it's ultimately up to the both of you to set the boundaries within your relationship. What works for us won't necessarily work for someone else.

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I have my boundries with it. Idc as long as our sex life is still healthy. As long as its not while im home and u can be having sex with me.

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When we where both together I hated it I would get so pissed off because I would find it on his phone one time I almost left him for it. We both talked about it and I told him he can watch porn if he wants since everyone was giving me so much shit that I shouldn't tell him no and that he's a boy he needs to. So finally I just told him to watch it. It still hurts me knowing he's doing it but I just try to ignore it. I think I will get pissed of if he tells me he's not in the mood and goes master bate to porn.(luckily he hasn't told me no) lol

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I feel that there's nothing wrong with porn, but yes as long as the sex life is healthy. If someone prefers porn to the real thing, there's a problem. I don't believe porn makes people cheat. That's some other issue at hand there.

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I'm married. He's married. Neither of us need to be getting off to other naked people. Masturbation ? I'm totally down with. But porn? Is unnecessary and totally disrespectful. Ill send him naked pictures if that's the case.

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Both me and my boyfriend have really high sex drives so I rarely turn him down for sex. The only time I would is if I was in pain (from my period) or sick or something. I would rather him not watch porn and just have sex with me instead but we're also long distance right now so it is what it is. I'm guilty of watching it too so I can't really say anything as long as our sex life is still healthy lol

What is your view on your significant other watching porn?

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