Miscarriages

I'm only 17 years old & last Tuesday at 8:42 P.M. I was taking a bath and noticed something floating in the water. Mind I've been bleeding all week, I take birth control but mine is set to where I don't have periods so I normally don't bleed and I haven't missed any lately. Anyway, I called my mom in there because I didn't know was it was. She looked and asked me if I've been having sex and I (lied) and told her no. She said it looked like a baby but she wasn't too sure. Without worrying, my parents went to bed. I sent the picture to my boyfriend & explained what happened. His mom delivers babies so she knew right away...it was a miscarriage. I didn't even know I was pregnant. Didn't know how far along I was or anything of the sort. But I should have caught the signs easily. Ladies. If you're in this boat and don't know. Make sure you know the signs. Bad bad back pains(worse than normal cramps) are the contractions, the heavy bleeding I should have caught on, the vomiting after everything I ate. I take a lot of medication for specific reasons so I assume that is what killed my baby. The depression and stress I take on could have also easily done that. I just wanted to share my story, because I need help. It's been a week and me and my boyfriend are lost for words still. We've been arguing almost every day since it happened. We are both still in shock and both so young to deal with this. So we have no idea. Someone please help if anyone has advice to give on how to save our relationship & how to get thru this tragedy together. Thank y'all so much for reading, listening, and to whoever had this happen to them...I am sorry and all ears if you need someone to talk to. Please leave advice in comments & God Bless you all❤️❤️