Is it me or are my parents tripping..

so I'm 20 years old , I go to college & work.. & I still have to ask my parents if it's okay if I can go out & they still give me a curfew.. then tonight I went out on a limb to see what they were going to say (even though I already knew the answer ) I asked them if I could go over my boyfriend house this weekend, they said no.. because that's disrespectful & a booty call.. I looked at them like they fucking lost there minds & when I tried to make them elaborate on why they said what they said.. my mom got mad and said don't get smart (whole time I was not ) & dismissed me telling me to go to my room 😂😒...

Is it me with the problem or them because they about to make me go crazy.. I'm completely fed up with their bullshit.. I love them but I need to do something, idk what tho.

Sooo what are y'all opinions