It's been 8 months ago for me, and it still hurts so bad. It especially hurts because I found out my cousin was pregnant when she was 10wks, I would've been one week ahead of her if I kept it. And she just recently had her baby a few weeks ago. I should be a mother right now and it kills me. It will always be hard as my cousin's child grows up because I know my baby would have been her age growing up at the same time.