So my friend that didn't want her baby needs a place to stay. She lives with a friend but it's not a good environment for her and the baby. Now I pick up to come over for the day and she tells me she is tried so I had this beautiful baby boy all day. You can tell she doesn't want to be a mom like his diaper was over soaked he has a bad rash and I tell her you have to change him more often. Just a lot like her motherly instincts have not kicked in... My husband thinks it will be best for her to stay with us but I know if this happens we will have the baby at all times bc she doesn't want to really deal with him. I am completely heartbroken bc we having been trying for over 2 years. I don't want to get attached to someone else's baby. My husband wants a baby so bad I think he is willing to temporary be a surrogate dad.... I'm torn I don't want to seem like I'm not a good friend I just don't think I can handle this....