Just fingering😞

Well don't know if there is a problem but l have one with it when we get in the mood he starts right away with his fingers up there.well l mean all the time he must think l like it but l don't he never goes inside anymore and he rolls over and wants me to do him then and is sort of soft to so lm down l think he doesn't want to do it anymore . if lm lucky once or twice a month l hate him fingering me hate it what do you all think has he went of me feel lonely please let me know what you think