Baby name conflict, help!

So, my husband and I are expecting twin boys. We decided that we may name the first born boy after hubby. The problem is we've had at least two people (family) tell us that the second twin would become jealous of not being the namesake. I feel like if we explain to him the tradition of the namesake going to the first born son he would understand. I don't care what family has to say about the result, I just wanna make sure my boys both feel included. What say ye?