Opinions?

I am now 9 dpo according to a different app I have. Af is due on the 21st. I am beyond bloated, constipation is outrageous, even with taking pills to help, my mood swings are bad, had low low cramps yesterday, feeling blah, hot flashes, my sex drive has plummeted. I want to test so badly, but my fiancé says we really need to wait until at least the 22nd to avoid disappointment. Is this normal for pregnancy symptoms?