BIRTH CONTROL

I LOST MY V CARD around October last year with this boy I am now dating. Of course I'm sexually active. And I don't know whether of not if I should even consider taking BIRTH CONTROL. Because we don't use any other type of protection.. (We don't like condoms we both feel uncomfortable with it) I have heard many negatives about taking it. It does future harm if you plan on having a baby in the future. My mother has had many miscarriages in the past and I don't know if that could happen to me as well and birth control really would harm me even more