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Doesn't sound like he really had it planned. Why don't u ask him what to get & go get it from the store or he can go buy & make it tomorrow he still has time.
Valentine's day😔
so i flew to be with my long distance fiancé for a few months, and he made plans for us for Valentine's tomorrow; he was going to cook dinner for me. simple, but we decided not to go out coz everywhere would be so busy due to the occasion and i have social anxiety. so yeah... he was going to cook, which i was really looking forward to coz he loves cooking, and he's really good at it. so this morning, he says 'oh shit!'. he hasnt bought any of the food for it, doesnt even have the equipment for the dessert... and he's working today so we cant get everything now. so now we're going to get take-out food... which isnt that romantic at all!😔
i just feel so let down... he's had this planned for weeks! and what made me really mad is then he turned around and blames his mom for not buying the stuff!! it wasnt her responsibility to buy it!
am i right for feeling hurt and let down, and angry sat how he talked to his mom?
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Just keep in mind that the way a man treats his mother is the way he will treat you. How old is he, twelve? Why is he depending on his mother to get a romantic evening ready for the two of you? No offense, but he doesn't sound like a keeper imo. But that's just me.
Me
It's not about treating you two the same. It's about respect and you yourself said you didn't like the way he treated her.
De
Lol right. Why won't she just go to the store
me
I disagree - myself and his mother are totally different people and he loves us in different ways and treats us accordingly. I don't think all men treat their mums and partners the same way - that seems a little off to me!
The food is not what this is about. It's about enjoying your company. I've been with my bf for 7 years TWO long distance. This is our second one living together and I work from 8am - 10pm so we may get the chance to do something this week but it doesn't matter. Enjoy and be happy at the fact that you even get to him tomorrow. Him not cooking is not that big of a deal 😊
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