So my biological dad left before I was born and I finally met him when I was 16 years old. Being almost 21 now we barely keep in touch because I have a step dad and he's all I need. Also, I'm still uncomfortable with my so-called "dad". So I posted the reveal on Facebook and one of his family members tagged him in it calling him a grandfather. My immediate reaction was thinking to delete her comment but I didn't but I'm uncomfortable and kind of upset that she'd do that. He's never been a dad to me, I don't want him to be a grandfather to my child. My baby's grandfather is my stepdad umong other people but not my "dad".